- •Psychology
- •Contents
- •Передмова
- •Part I. Introducing psychology Text 1. Special Fields of Psychology
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- •Text 2. Physiological Psychology
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- •Text 3. Gestalt Psychology
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- •Text 4. Social Psychology
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- •Part II. Family psychology Text 1. Family Relations
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- •Text 2. Cohabitation.
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- •Text 3. Family Problems
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- •Text 4. Single-Parent Families
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- •Text 5. Stepfamilies
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- •Text 6. Ten Tips for Building a Marriage
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- •Text 7.The Difficult Child
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- •Text 8. Handling Aggressive Children
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- •Агресивні діти
- •Part III. Psychology of sex relations. Behavioral therapies.
- •3.1 Psychology of sex relations Text 1.Can Men and Women Be Friends?
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- •Text 2. Men and Women Really do Think Differently
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- •Text 3. Psychological Problems of Sex Relations
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- •3.2. Behavioral therapies Text 1. The Approaches to Therapy.
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- •Text 2. Reciprocal Inhibition
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- •Text 3. Desensitization in Real Life Situations
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- •Text 4. Other Methods of Treating Psychological Disorders.
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- •Text 5. Assertive Training
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- •Part IV. Temperament. Emotions
- •4.1 Temperament Text1. Personality: What is Temperament?
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- •Text 2.The Four Temperaments in General
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- •Text 3. How to Define Your Temperament
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- •Text 4. Personality and Handwriting
- •Vocabulary notes
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- •Text 5. Left-Handed People
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- •Про що можливо дізнатися з почерку?
- •4.2 Emotions Тext 1. What Are Emotions?
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- •Text 2. Kinds of Emotions
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- •Text 3. Loving
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- •Text 4. Fear and Anger
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- •Text 5. Long-Тerm Arousal
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- •Text 6. Attributions
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- •Text 7. Locus of Control
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- •Part V. Human feelings. Phobias.
- •5.1 Human feelings. Text 1. Our Feelings as the Motor of Our Life
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- •Text 2. How do We Loose Our Feelings?
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- •Text 3. Negative Feelings
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- •Text 4. Find Constructive Ways to Release Your Anger
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- •Text 5. Shyness is a Common Social Problem
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- •Text 6. What is Modesty?
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- •5.2 Phobias Text 1. Social Phobia
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- •Text 2. Facts about Phobias
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- •Text 3. Social Phobia in Children
- •Text 4. Panic
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- •Part VI. Stress Text 1. Types of Stress
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- •Text 2. Common Stress Symptoms
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- •Text 3. Stress Areas
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- •Text 4. Priorities in Managing Stress
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- •Text 5. Stress Management and Communication
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- •Text 6. Stress Management Techniques
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- •Text 7. Steps to Combat Stress
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- •Part VII.Sleep and dreams. Memory and brain.
- •7.1. Sleep and dreams Text 1. Sleep
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- •Text 2. The Mystery of Sleep
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- •Text 3 . Sweet Dreams
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- •Text 4. The Meaning of Dreams
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- •Text 5. Freud and Dreams
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- •Text 6. Body Clock
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- •7.2 Memory and brain. Text 1. Memory
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- •Text 2. Inside the Brain.
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- •Text 3. Hypnotherapy
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- •Part VIII. Psychology of learning. Psychology in work.
- •8.1 Psychology of learning. Text 1. Asociation Learning
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- •Text 2. Treating Phobias.
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- •Text 3. Operant Conditioning
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- •Text 4. Imitation and Modelling
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- •Text 5. Schemas
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- •Text 6. The Triarchic Theory of Intelligence
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- •8.2. Psychology in work Text 1. Psychological Theories about Unemployment and Retirement
- •Latent functions of working
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- •Text 2. Retirement and Responsibility
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- •Text 3. Leadership
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- •Text 4. Choosing People for Jobs
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- •Список літератури
Part IV. Temperament. Emotions
4.1 Temperament Text1. Personality: What is Temperament?
Some babies are more expressive, some more timid. Some are very physically active, and some are more sedate. Some are sensitive to loud noises, while others are not bothered at all. Some thrive when surrounded by people, while others are content to play alone quietly. These differences are what we call temperament, and much of this becomes evident in the first few months after birth.
As parents, it is important to recognize the basic temperament of your child, so you can respond appropriately. For example, if your child's temperament is timid, introduce new activities slowly and allow time for him to build up confidence. If your child's temperament is highly active, give advance notice of changes, so she doesn't fly off the handle. And, if your child's temperament is easy going, remember that even though she copes well, you are still needed so check in and stay connected.
Temperament and Child's Personality
Personality is determined by the interaction of temperament traits with the environment. Each person (including your child) comes with a factory installed wiring. How your child is wired can determine whether they will be easy or difficult to raise. How well their temperament fits with the environment and how well they are received by the people in the environment will determine how a child sees himself and others.
What is temperament?
Temperament is a set of in-born traits that organize the child's approach to the world. They are instrumental in the development of the child's distinct personality. These traits also determine how the child goes about learning about the world around him.
These traits appear to be relatively stable from birth. They are enduring characteristics that are actually never "good" or "bad." How they are received determines whether they are perceived by the child as being a bad or good thing. When parents understand the temperament of their children, they can avoid blaming themselves for issues that are normal for their child's temperament. Some children are noisier than other. Some are more cuddly than others. Some have more regular sleep patterns that others.
When parents understand how their child responds to certain situations, they can learn to anticipate issues that might present difficulties for their child. They can prepare the child for the situation or in other cases they may avoid a potentially difficult situation all together.
Parents can tailor their parenting strategies to the particular temperamental characteristics of the child. They can also avoid thinking that a behavior that reflects a temperament trait represents a pathological condition that requires treatment.
Parents feel more effective as they more fully understand and appreciate their child's unique personality.
When the demands and expectations of people and the environment are compatible with the child's temperament there is said to be a "goodness-of-fit." When incompatibility exists, you have what is known as a "personality conflict." Early on parents can work with the child's temperamental traits rather than in opposition to them. Later as the child matures the parents can help the child to adapt to their world by accommodating to their temperamental traits.